An eight-year-old
schoolboy has married a 61-year-old woman because the ghost of his dead
ancestor told him to.
Sanele Masilela tied the
knot with Helen Shabangu, who is already married and a mother-of-five.
The boy, from Tshwane,
South Africa, said he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and his
family, fearing divine retribution, forked out for a wedding.
They paid £500 for the
bride and a further £1,000 for the big day, which was organised in just two
months.
Eight-Year Old Sanele Masilela walks down
the aisle with his 61-year-old bride Helen Shabangu at their wedding ceremony
in Tshwane, South Africa
Ceremony: The schoolboy kisses his 61-year-old bride, who is already
married and a mother of five. He said he had been told to tie the knot by his
ancestors
Dressed in a bow tie and tiny silver suit, little Sanele, the
youngest of five children, exchanged rings in front of 100 guests and even puckered
up for a kiss.
It's already shocked the community but the family has defended the
ceremony, saying it was just a ritual and not legally binding.
Sanele's 46-year-old mum, Patience Masilela said:
'This is the first time this has happened in the family.
'Sanele is named after his grandfather, who was never had a white
wedding before he died so asked Sanele to get married. He chose Helen because
he loves her.
'By doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn't done what
my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family.
'I didn't have a problem with it because I know it's what the
ancestors wanted and it would make them happy.
The
widow, who works at a recycling centre, added: 'I would say that this is not
wrong.
'Sanele
was fine and he was happy about the ceremony and it was what he wanted. He was
happy to get married and very excited.'
Sanele
and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live
together. Both have gone back to their normal lives.
Sanele
today said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when
he was older.
He
added: 'I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want
to.
'I'm
happy that I married Helen - but I will go to school and study hard.
'When
I'm older I will marry a lady my own age.'
Despite
being old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged
between 37 and 27, was happy with the arrangement.
Helen,
who also works at a recycling centre, said: 'I'm married and have five kids of
my own, but I know that this is what the ancestors wanted - and now they are
happy.
'It is a
ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married one
day.'
Her
husband of 30 years, Alfred, 65, said: 'My kids and I are happy.
'We
don't have problems with it but some of the community members were shocked.'
The couple
pose in traditional costume. The £1,500 cost of the wedding included £500 for
the bride
Given away:
Sanele walks to his wedding with his mother as people look on. The ceremony
shocked some people in the community
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